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Ceremony

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CeremonyA homely ritual, an imperfect altar. A moments silence sparks charcoaled incense, and true serenity descends. Impression Frankincense, Mastic, Saffron, Myrrh, Rose, Musk, Styrax, Sandalwood, Labdanum 220g scented coconut and rapeseed wax candle Approximately 45 hours burn time Made in Scotland. How to use: When you light your candle for the first time, let the entire wax surface melt before putting it out. We recommend allowing your candle to burn for


A homely ritual, an imperfect altar. A moment’s silence sparks charcoaled incense, and true serenity descends.

 

Impression

Frankincense, Mastic, Saffron, Myrrh, Rose, Musk, Styrax, Sandalwood, Labdanum

 

220g scented coconut and rapeseed wax candle
Approximately 45 hours burn time

 

Made in Scotland.

 

How to use:

- When you light your candle for the first time, let the entire wax surface melt before putting it out.
- We recommend allowing your candle to burn for 2-4 hours on the initial burn or until the wax becomes fully molten on the surface.
- Burn for less than 4 hours with each consecutive burn.
- Do not move a candle when lit, when wax is molten, or the glass is still hot.
- Due to the natural composition of the soy wax used, the surface can have a marbled appearance and the fragrance may take a little take time to fill up a room. This is normal and won’t affect your candle’s performance.
- Regularly trim the wick to an ideal length of between 3-5mm.
- Remove the wick mushroom/ bulb for optimum burn performance.
- Centre the wick in the wax after each use for consistent consumption of the wax and to avoid wax hang-up on the side of the vessel.
- Do not leave a burning candle unattended.
- Do not set in a draft.
- Our candles burn for approximately 60 hours in optimal burning conditions.
- Do not burn the candle all the way to the bottom of the vessel – leave around 5mm of wax or discontinue use when the metal wick sustainer becomes visible through the molten wax.
- We recommend airing your space after burning a candle.

 

Storage instructions:
Store your candle in a dry, temperate place between 15-25°C. For optimum performance, use your candle within 2 months of purchase. Plant based waxes can ‘sweat’ if ambient temperature fluctuates. The sweating may vanish and absorb back into the wax or you can wipe the top of the candle (please wear gloves). If you are uncertain about any of the characteristics that your candle exhibits, discontinue use and either discard in-line with your local waste regulations or contact us before using again.

Natural plant waxes may reset bumpy or pitted between burns – this is due to the high purity of the vegetable wax used and will not affect the burning performance of your candle. It may not look pretty, but it will smell glorious.

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Pomegranate Pear
Fort Morgan, US
★★★★★ 5
Valuable perspective; moving; beautiful
Format: Hardcover
I loved this book. I devoured the entire thing in one sitting on a Sunday afternoon. It's a beautiful and tragic and warm story all at the same time. I feel like a lot of times when we hear about the Vietnam war in the United States, it's told from the perspective of American soldiers rather than the Southern Vietnamese who lost their home land. Really refreshing to see this diverse and nuanced perspective. I look forward to Thi Bui's future works.
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Reviewed in the United States on August 23, 2022
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Savannah L.
Cuba, US
★★★★★ 5
This book healed me
Format: Paperback
Beautifully written and illustrated. Although Thi Bui and I have astronomically different life experiences, I still found I could relate on a deeply personal level. This book taught me empathy and forgiveness at a time in my life where I struggled to have it. Bui nailed the complicated feelings and emotions that comes with confronting abuse, abusers (who happen to be your parents), and the painful impact of generational trauma on both the parent and child. Highly recommend this book to anyone who is on a path of healing their own broken heart.
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Reviewed in the United States on June 16, 2023
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Gabby M
Lexington, US
★★★★★ 4
Powerful Family History
Format: Paperback
After the birth of her son, Thi Bui feels an increased sense of urgency about learning the stories of her own parents. Like all but her youngest sibling, she was born in Vietnam, though the children came of age in the United States. While the war itself haunts all of them, was the reason they left their homeland, the wounds her parents bear go far beyond the military conflict. This was only the second graphic novel I’ve ever read (both have been memoirs), and like the first was also selected by my book club. I feel like the limitations of the format mean it will always be a less preferred one for me, because I found myself wanting more words, more depth to the writing itself. But the story is deeply compelling, detailing her father’s brutal childhood, her mother’s much softer one, how they came together, and how the Vietnam War disrupted the future they thought they might have. It’s not as straightforward as “Americans bad”, and Bui is not afraid of the moral ambiguity of that time and place, where the best interests of the majority of the Vietnamese people was an open question for larger forces that seemed to have little room for consideration of what might have actually made regular lives easier to lead. And apart from the larger geopolitical machinations around them, the family had their own share of tragedy, including the death of their first child and a later stillbirth. But three living children and another on the way was enough for her parents to make frantic arrangements to leave, finally succeeding and eventually making their way to the United States. But of course, that was not the end of their story, just the beginning of a new chapter. Bui’s childhood as she depicts it makes it clear that it wasn’t the stuff dreams are made of, but what shines through is her tremendous empathy for her parents and how they became the people she experienced them as. Overarching the narrative is a meditation on parenthood, as it is the birth of her own child that inspires her to ask her parents more. They might have made major mistakes, but it is clear that they loved their children and did what they thought was best for them, making countless sacrifices to give them the best opportunities possible, even if that love was not always shown the way that they wanted and needed to feel it. Vietnamese perspectives on the war in their country were not something I was exposed to growing up (honestly the Vietnam War itself wasn’t something I remember being taught with particular rigor in high school apart from its connection to electoral politics), and I appreciated learning more about the history of the country and how the people who actually lived through the conflict thought about it. Even though this is not my preferred format, I think Bui uses it well to engage in some non-linear storytelling and to very literally illustrate what she’s trying to get it, like the way she parallels the way her relatively rural parents must have felt seeing Saigon for the first time with the way she felt when she first moved to New York, a sense of awe and possibility. It’s a powerful, moving work and I would recommend picking it up!
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Reviewed in the United States on February 3, 2026
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Riyen
Grantham, US
★★★★★ 5
Truly, the best we could do
Format: Kindle
An excerpt from my analysis essay I submitted for my literature course: By revisiting her family’s past from before, during, and after the Vietnam War, she gained a deeper understanding of the emotional burdens her parents carried and the sacrifices they made that defined the entirety of their lives. Bui’s illustrated graphic memoir reveals that trauma does not simply disappear over time; instead, it becomes inherited, processed, and transformed. Through this process, Thi Bui is able to move toward empathy for her parents, acceptance of who they are, and a more complete sense of self.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 21, 2026
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Kathy
Los Angeles, US
★★★★★ 5
Phenomenal. A must-read!
Format: Paperback
I first learned about this book only a week ago when visiting my sister for Thanksgiving in Eugene, Oregon. We went to the Jordan Schnitzer Museum of Art where I saw some work on display by the author, and there was a copy of her book available to look at, so I perused through and decided to buy it and read it. I'm so glad that I did! This is an incredible, poetic story that spans four generations, multiple wars and conflicts, and examines the fragility of the author's relationship with her parents and with her sense of place and motherhood. This book is one of the best I've read in a long time, and the art is moving and beautiful. It gave me new insight into the struggles of refugee life, and created a truly relatable narrative. I devoured this story in one Saturday. I highly recommend it.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 2, 2018

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