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Wheel Spacers 13mm 66,5mm 5x112

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Wheel Spacers 13mm 66,5mm 5x112The price applies to a set for one axle without screws. 13mm thick spacers per side with centering flange. Product description: material PA6 duralumin distance thickness 13mm per side (26mm per axis) hole flange diameter 66. 5mm hole spacing 5x112mm screws: Wheel bolt M12x1. 25 40mm Cone Wheel bolt M12x1. 5 40mm Ball Wheel bolt M12x1. 5 40mm Cone Wheel bolt M14x1. 5 40mm Ball Wheel bolt M14x1. 5 40mm Cone screw hardness 10. 9 The spacers match: Audi

The price applies to a set for one axle without screws.

13mm thick spacers per side with centering flange.

Product description:

  • material - PA6 duralumin
  • distance thickness - 13mm per side (26mm per axis)
  • hole / flange diameter - 66.5mm
  • hole spacing - 5x112mm
  • screws:
    • Wheel bolt M12x1.25 40mm Cone
    • Wheel bolt M12x1.5 40mm Ball
    • Wheel bolt M12x1.5 40mm Cone
    • Wheel bolt M14x1.5 40mm Ball
    • Wheel bolt M14x1.5 40mm Cone
  • screw hardness 10.9

The spacers match:

Audi A4 CABA 1.8 TFSi 120 2008-2015
Audi A4 CABB 1.8 TFSi 160 2007-2011
Audi A4 CAEB 2.0 TFSi 211 2008-2013
Audi A4 CAGA 2.0 TDi 143 2007-2013
Audi A4 CAGB 2.0 TDi 136 2009-2015
Audi A4 CAGC 2.0 TDi 120 2008-2015
Audi A4 CAHA 2.0 TDi 170 2008-2011
Audi A4 CAHB 2.0 TDi 163 2011-2015
Audi A4 CALA 3.2 FSi 2007-2011
Audi A4 CAMA 2.7 TDi 2007-2011
Audi A4 CAPA 3.0 TDi 240 2007-2011
Audi A4 CDNB 2.0 TFSi 180 2008-2011
Audi A4 CDUC 3.0 TDi 245 2011-2015
Audi A4 CFKA 2.0 TFSi flexible 2009-2015
Audi A4 CGLC 2.0 TDi 177 2011-2015
Audi A4 CJCD 2.0 TDi 150 2011-2015
Audi A4 CJEB 1.8 TFSi 170 2011-2015
Audi A4 CLAB 3.0 TDi 204 2011-2015
Audi A4 CMUA 3.0 TFSi 2012-2015
Audi A4 CNCD 2.0 TFSi 225 2013-2015
Audi A4 CNHA 2.0 TDi 190 2014-2015
Audi A4 CRTC 3.0TDi 272 2016-2018
Audi A4 CSWB 3.0TDi 218 2016-2018
Audi A4 CVK 2.0TFSi (DBA-8WCVK) 2017-2018
Audi A4 CVK 40 TFSi (DBA-8WCVK) 2019-2019
Audi A4 CVKB 2.0TFSi 190 2016-2016
Audi A4 CVKB 40 TFSi 2018-2020
Audi A4 CVLA 2.0TFSi g-tron 2016-2018
Audi A4 CVLA 40 g-tron 2019-2019
Audi A4 CVN 1.4TFSi (ABA-8WCVN) 2016-2018
Audi A4 CVN 35 TFSi (ABA-8WCVN) 2019-2019
Audi A4 CVNA 1.4TFSi 2016-2018
Audi A4 CYMC 2.0TFSi 252 2016-2016
Audi A4 CYR 2.0TFSi (DBA-8WCYRF) 2016-2018
Audi A4 CYR 45 TFSi (DBA-8WCYRF) 2019-2019
Audi A4 CZHA 2.0TDi 150 2016-2018
Audi A4 CZHA 35 TDi 2018-2019
Audi A4 DESA 2.0TDi 190 2016-2018
Audi A4 DESA 40 TDi 2018-2020
Audi A4 DEUC 2.0TDi 122 2016-2018
Audi A4 DEUC 30 TDi 2018-2019
Audi A4 I4 2.0 TFSi 2009-2016
Audi A4 I4 2.0TFSi (ABA-8WCVK) 2016-2016
Audi A4 I4 2.0TFSi (ABA-8WCYRF) 2016-2016
Audi A4 I4 2.0TFSi 190 2017-2018
Audi A4 I4 2.0TFSi 252 2017-2018
Audi A4 I4 30 TDi 122 2019-2020
Audi A4 I4 30 TDi 136 2019-2020
Audi A4 I4 35 TDi 2019-2020
Audi A4 I4 35 TFSi 2018-2020
Audi A4 I4 40 g-tron 2020-2020
Audi A4 I4 40 TFSi 2019-2019
Audi A4 I4 45 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi A4 V6 45 TDi 2019-2020
Audi A4 V6 50 TDi 2019-2020
Audi A4 Allroad CRTC 3.0TDi 272 2016-2018
Audi A4 Allroad CSWB 3.0TDi 218 2016-2018
Audi A4 Allroad CYMC 2.0TFSi 2016-2016
Audi A4 Allroad CYR 2.0TFSi quattro (ABA-8WCYRA) 2016-2018
Audi A4 Allroad CYR 45 TFSi quattro (ABA-8WCYRA) 2019-2019
Audi A4 Allroad DESA 2.0TDi 190 2016-2018
Audi A4 Allroad DETB 2.0TDi 163 2016-2018
Audi A4 Allroad DEUA 2.0TDi 150 2016-2018
Audi A4 Allroad I4 2.0TDi 2009-2015
Audi A4 Allroad I4 2.0TFSi 2009-2018
Audi A4 Allroad I4 45 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi A4 Allroad I4 45 TFSi quattro 2019-2020
Audi A5 CRTC 3.0TDi 272 2017-2018
Audi A5 CSWB 3.0TDi 218 2016-2018
Audi A5 CVK 2.0TFSi (DBA-F5CVKL) 2017-2018
Audi A5 CVK 40 TFSi (DBA-F5CVKL) 2018-2019
Audi A5 CVKB 2.0TFSi 190 2016-2018
Audi A5 CVKB 40 TFSi 2018-2020
Audi A5 CVLA 2.0TFSi g-tron 2017-2018
Audi A5 CVLA 40 g-tron 2019-2020
Audi A5 CVNA 1.4TFSi 2016-2018
Audi A5 CYR 2.0TFSi (ABA-F5CYRC) 2017-2018
Audi A5 CYR 2.0TFSi (DBA-F5CYRF) 2016-2018
Audi A5 CYR 2.0TFSi (DBA-F5CYRL) 2017-2018
Audi A5 CYR 45 TFSi (ABA-F5CYRC) 2018-2019
Audi A5 CYR 45 TFSi (DBA-F5CYRF) 2018-2019
Audi A5 CYR 45 TFSi (DBA-F5CYRL) 2018-2019
Audi A5 CYRB 2.0 TFSi 249 2016-2018
Audi A5 CYRB 2.0 TFSi 252 2016-2018
Audi A5 CYRB 45 TFSi 249 2019-2020
Audi A5 CZHA 2.0TDi 150 2017-2018
Audi A5 CZHA 35 TDi 150 2018-2019
Audi A5 DCPC 3.0TDi 286 2017-2018
Audi A5 DESA 2.0TDi 190 2016-2018
Audi A5 DESA 40 TDi 2018-2020
Audi A5 I4 1.8TFSi 2007-2016
Audi A5 I4 2.0TDi 2007-2016
Audi A5 I4 2.0TFSi 2007-2018
Audi A5 I4 2.0TFSi (ABA-8TCDNF) 2009-2011
Audi A5 I4 2.0TFSi (DBA-8TCDNF) 2012-2016
Audi A5 I4 2.7TDi 2007-2012
Audi A5 I4 35 TDi 163 2019-2020
Audi A5 I4 35 TFSi 2018-2019
Audi A5 I4 45 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi A5 I4 45 TFSi 245 2019-2020
Audi A5 V6 3.0TDi 2007-2016
Audi A5 V6 3.0TDi quattro 2013-2016
Audi A5 V6 3.0TFSi 2013-2016
Audi A5 V6 3.2FSi 2007-2012
Audi A5 V6 3.2FSi (ABA-8TCALF) 2007-2010
Audi A5 V6 45 TDi 2019-2020
Audi A5 V6 50 TDi 2019-2020
Audi A6 DFB 40 TDi (3CA-F2DFBF) 2020-2020
Audi A6 DKN 45 TFSi (3AA-F2DKNF) 2020-2020
Audi A6 DLZ 55 TFSi quattro (AAA-F2DLZF) 2019-2020
Audi A6 DLZA 55 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi A6 DLZA 55 TFSi quattro 2018-2020
Audi A6 I4 1.8TFSi 2012-2018
Audi A6 I4 1.8TFSi (ABA-4GCYG) 2015-2018
Audi A6 I4 2.0TDi 2011-2018
Audi A6 I4 2.0TFSi 2011-2018
Audi A6 I4 2.0TFSi (ABA-4GCYPS) 2015-2018
Audi A6 I4 35 TDi 2019-2020
Audi A6 I4 40 TDi 2018-2020
Audi A6 I4 45 TFSi 2018-2020
Audi A6 V6 2.5FSi 2012-2018
Audi A6 V6 2.8FSi 2012-2015
Audi A6 V6 3.0TDi 2011-2018
Audi A6 V6 3.0TFSi 2012-2018
Audi A6 V6 3.0TFSi (ABA-4GCRES) 2015-2018
Audi A6 V6 45 TDi quattro 2018-2020
Audi A6 V6 50 TDi quattro 2018-2020
Audi A6 Allroad CRE 3.0TFSi (ABA-4GCREB) 2015-2018
Audi A6 Allroad CREC 3.0TFSi 2015-2018
Audi A6 Allroad CREC 55 TFSi 2018-2019
Audi A6 Allroad CRTD 3.0TDi 272 2014-2018
Audi A6 Allroad CRTE 3.0TDi 218 2014-2018
Audi A6 Allroad CVUA 3.0TDi 320 2014-2018
Audi A6 Allroad CZVF 3.0TDi 190 2015-2018
Audi A6 Allroad V6 3.0TDi 2012-2014
Audi A6 Allroad V6 3.0TFSi 2012-2014
Audi A6 Allroad V6 45 TDi quattro 2019-2020
Audi A6 Allroad V6 50 TDi quattro 2019-2020
Audi A6 Allroad V6 55 TDi quattro 2019-2020
Audi A6 Allroad V6 55 TFSi quattro 2019-2020
Audi A7 DAXB 45 TFSi 2018-2020
Audi A7 DFB 40 TDi (3CA-F2DFBS) 2019-2020
Audi A7 DKN 45 TFSi (3AA-F2DKNS) 2019-2020
Audi A7 DLZ 55 TFSi (AAA-F2DLZS) 2018-2020
Audi A7 DLZA 55 TFSi 2018-2018
Audi A7 I4 2.0TFSi 2014-2017
Audi A7 I4 2.0TFSi (ABA-4GCYPC) 2015-2018
Audi A7 I4 40 TDi 2018-2020
Audi A7 I4 55 TFSi e 2019-2020
Audi A7 V6 2.8FSi 2010-2014
Audi A7 V6 3.0TDi 2010-2017
Audi A7 V6 3.0TFSi 2010-2018
Audi A7 V6 3.0TFSi (ABA-4GCGWC) 2011-2011
Audi A7 V6 3.0TFSi (ABA-4GCREC) 2015-2018
Audi A7 V6 3.0TFSi (DBA-4GCGWC) 2012-2014
Audi A7 V6 45 TDi 2018-2020
Audi A7 V6 50 TDi 2018-2020
Audi A7 V6 55 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi A8 CXY 60 TFSi 2018-2020
Audi A8 CXY 60 TFSi (AAA-F8CXYL) 2018-2020
Audi A8 CXY L 60 TFSi (AAA-F8CXYF) 2018-2020
Audi A8 CZS 55 TFSi (AAA-F8CZSF) 2018-2020
Audi A8 CZSE 55 TFSi 2018-2020
Audi A8 DDVC 50 TDi 2018-2020
Audi A8 I4 2.0TFSi 2012-2015
Audi A8 V6 3.0TDi 2010-2017
Audi A8 V6 3.0TFSi 2010-2018
Audi A8 V6 3.0TFSi (DBA-4HCREF) 2014-2017
Audi A8 V6 45 TDi 2019-2020
Audi A8 V6 60 TFSi e 2019-2020
Audi A8 V8 4.0TFSi 2012-2018
Audi A8 V8 4.0TFSi (ABA-4HCTGF) 2014-2017
Audi A8 V8 4.0TFSi (ABA-4HCTGL) 2014-2017
Audi A8 V8 4.2FSi 2011-2012
Audi A8 V8 4.2TDi 2003-2017
Audi A8 V8 60 TDi 2020-2020
Audi A8 W12 6.3FSi 2011-2017
Audi A8 W12 6.3FSi (ABA-4HCTNL) 2014-2017
Audi Allroad I4 2.0TFSi 2013-2016
Audi Q5 DAX 2.0TFSi (DBA-FYDAXA) 2017-2018
Audi Q5 DAX 2.0TFSi (DBA-FYDAXS) 2017-2018
Audi Q5 DAX 45 TFSi (DBA-FYDAXA) 2019-2020
Audi Q5 DAX 45 TFSi (DBA-FYDAXS) 2019-2020
Audi Q5 DAXB 2.0TFSi 2017-2018
Audi Q5 DCPC 3.0TDi 286 2017-2018
Audi Q5 DCPC 50 TDi 2019-2020
Audi Q5 DESA 2.0TDi 190 2017-2018
Audi Q5 DESA 40 TDi 190 2018-2020
Audi Q5 DESA 40 TDi 204 2019-2020
Audi Q5 DET 40 TDi (LDA-FYDETA) 2019-2020
Audi Q5 DET 40 TDi (LDA-FYDETS) 2019-2020
Audi Q5 DETB 2.0TDi 163 2017-2018
Audi Q5 DETB 35 TDi 2018-2020
Audi Q5 DEUA 2.0TDi 150 2017-2018
Audi Q5 I4 2.0 TFSi 2018-2019
Audi Q5 I4 2.0TDi 2007-2016
Audi Q5 I4 2.0TFSi 2007-2016
Audi Q5 I4 2.0TFSi (ABA-8RCNCF) 2012-2016
Audi Q5 I4 45 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi Q5 I4 50 TFSi e 2019-2020
Audi Q5 I4 55 TFSi e 2019-2020
Audi Q5 V6 3.0TDi 2007-2016
Audi Q5 V6 3.0TFSi 2012-2016
Audi Q5 V6 3.2FSi 2007-2011
Audi Q5 V6 45 TDi 2019-2020
Audi Q7 CRE 3.0 TFSi (ABA-4MCREA) 2016-2018
Audi Q7 CRE 3.0 TFSi (ABA-4MCRES) 2016-2018
Audi Q7 CRE 55 TFSi (ABA-4MCREA) 2018-2019
Audi Q7 CRE 55 TFSi (ABA-4MCRES) 2018-2019
Audi Q7 CREC 55 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi Q7 CRTC 3.0 TDi 272 2016-2018
Audi Q7 CRTC 45 TDi 231 2018-2020
Audi Q7 CRTC 45 TDi 249 2020-2020
Audi Q7 CRTE 3.0 TDi Ultra 2016-2018
Audi Q7 CVMD 3.0 TDi 249 2016-2018
Audi Q7 CVMD 45 TDi 249 2019-2019
Audi Q7 CYR 2.0 TFSi (ABA-4MCYRA) 2016-2018
Audi Q7 CYR 2.0 TFSi (ABA-4MCYRS) 2016-2018
Audi Q7 CYR 45 TFSi (ABA-4MCYRA) 2018-2019
Audi Q7 CYR 45 TFSi (ABA-4MCYRS) 2018-2019
Audi Q7 I4 2.0 TFSi 2016-2018
Audi Q7 I4 45 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi Q7 I4 55 e-tron 2018-2019
Audi Q7 V6 3.0 TDi e-tron 2016-2018
Audi Q7 V6 3.0 TFSi 2016-2018
Audi Q7 V6 50 TDi 2018-2020
Audi Q7 V6 55 TFSi 2019-2019
Audi Q7 V6 55 TFSi e 2019-2020
Audi Q7 V6 60 TFSi e 2019-2020
Audi Q8 CVMD 45 TDi 249 2019-2020
Audi Q8 DCB 55 TFSi (AAA-F1DCBA) 2019-2020
Audi Q8 DCB 55 TFSi (AAA-F1DCBS) 2019-2020
Audi Q8 DCBD 55 TFSi 2018-2018
Audi Q8 DHXA 50 TDi 2018-2020
Audi Q8 I4 45 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi Q8 V6 45 TDi 231 2019-2020
Audi Q8 V6 55 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi RS Q8 V8 4.0 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi RS4 DEC 2.9TFSi (ABA-8WDECF) 2019-2019
Audi RS4 DECA 2.9TFSi 2017-2020
Audi RS4 V8 4.2FSi 2012-2016
Audi RS4 V8 4.2FSi (ABA-8KCFSF) 2013-2016
Audi RS5 CFS 4.2FSi (ABA-8FCFSF) 2013-2016
Audi RS5 CFS 4.2FSi (ABA-8TCFSF) 2010-2016
Audi RS5 DEC 2.9 TFSi (ABA-F5DECF) 2017-2019
Audi RS5 DEC 2.9 TFSi (ABA-F5DECL) 2019-2019
Audi RS5 DECA 2.9 TFSi 2017-2018
Audi RS5 V6 2.9 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi RS5 V8 4.2FSi 2010-2016
Audi RS6 V8 4.0 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi RS6 V8 4.0TFSi 2013-2018
Audi RS6 V8 4.0TFSi (ABA-4GCRDS) 2013-2015
Audi RS6 V8 4.0TFSi performance 2015-2018
Audi RS6 V8 4.0TFSi performance (ABA-4GCWUS) 2016-2018
Audi RS7 CWUC 4.0TFSi performance 2015-2015
Audi RS7 V8 4.0 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi RS7 V8 4.0TFSi 2013-2018
Audi RS7 V8 4.0TFSi (ABA-4GCRDC) 2014-2015
Audi RS7 V8 4.0TFSi performance 2016-2018
Audi RS7 V8 4.0TFSi performance (ABA-4GCWUC) 2016-2018
Audi S4 CWG 3.0TFSi (ABA-8WCWGF) 2016-2019
Audi S4 CWGD 3.0TFSi 2016-2019
Audi S4 V6 3.0 TFSi 2020-2020
Audi S4 V6 3.0TFSi 2009-2015
Audi S4 V6 S4 TDi 2019-2020
Audi S5 CWG 3.0TFSi (ABA-F5CWGC) 2017-2019
Audi S5 CWG 3.0TFSi (ABA-F5CWGF) 2017-2019
Audi S5 CWG 3.0TFSi (ABA-F5CWGL) 2017-2019
Audi S5 CWGD 3.0 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi S5 CWGD 3.0TFSi 2017-2018
Audi S5 V6 3.0TFSi 2011-2016
Audi S5 V6 S5 TDi 2019-2020
Audi S5 V8 4.2FSi 2007-2012
Audi S6 CTG 4.0TFSi (ABA-4GCTGA) 2015-2018
Audi S6 V6 2.9 TFSi 2020-2020
Audi S6 V6 S6 TDi 2019-2020
Audi S6 V8 4.0TFSi 2012-2018
Audi S7 CTGE 4.0TFSi 2014-2015
Audi S7 V6 2.9 TFSi 2020-2020
Audi S7 V6 S7 TDi 2019-2020
Audi S7 V8 4.0TFSi 2012-2018
Audi S7 V8 4.0TFSi (ABA-4GCEUL) 2012-2014
Audi S7 V8 4.0TFSi (ABA-4GCTGL) 2015-2018
Audi S8 V8 4.0 TFSi 2019-2020
Audi S8 V8 4.0TFSi 2012-2017
Audi S8 V8 4.0TFSi plus 2015-2018
Audi SQ5 CWG 3.0 TFSi (ABA-FYCWGA) 2018-2020
Audi SQ5 CWG 3.0 TFSi (ABA-FYCWGS) 2017-2020
Audi SQ5 CWGD 3.0 TFSi 2017-2020
Audi SQ5 V6 3.0TDi 2012-2016
Audi SQ5 V6 3.0TDi plus 2015-2016
Audi SQ5 V6 3.0TFSi 2012-2017
Audi SQ5 V6 3.0TFSi (ABA-8RCTXF) 2013-2016
Audi SQ5 V6 SQ5 TDi 2019-2020
Audi SQ7 CZAC 4.0TDi 2016-2017
Audi SQ7 CZAC SQ7 TDi 2017-2020
Audi SQ8 V8 SQ8 TDi 2019-2020
BMW i8 B38K15A 1.5 2016-2016
BMW i8 B38K15A 1.5 (DLA-2Z15) 2016-2016
Chrysler Crossfire M112 C32 3.2i SC 2003-2007
Chrysler Crossfire M112 E32 3.2i 2003-2007
Porsche Macan I4 2.0 2019-2020
Porsche Macan MCT.BA 3.0 S Diesel 2014-2018
Porsche Macan MCT.BB 3.0 S Diesel 211 2014-2018
Porsche Macan MCT.LA 3.6 Turbo 2014-2018
Porsche Macan MCT.LA 3.6 Turbo WLS 2016-2018
Porsche Macan MCT.MA 3.0 S 2014-2018
Porsche Macan MCY.NB,MCY.PA 2.0 2014-2018
Porsche Macan MDC.NA 3.0 GTS 2015-2018
Porsche Macan V6 3.0 S 2019-2020
Toyota Supra B48B20 2.0i (3BA-DB22) 2019-2020
Toyota Supra B48B20 2.0i (3BA-DB82) 2019-2020
Toyota Supra B58B30 3.0i 2019-2020
Toyota Supra B58B30 3.0i (3BA-DB42) 2019-2020

Our distancers are made of PA6 duralumin roller, which makes them very durable and lightweight at the same time, which makes them also great for riding on the track.

Both the hole and the centering flange are created with a tolerance of up to 0.05 mm, which ensures accurate centering of the wheel and prevents the occurrence of vibrations on the steering wheel that occur when the rim is not properly aligned.

Screwed on spacers are also made of duralumin with pressed knurled pins or steel threaded sleeves, which prevents thread breakage. Both pins and sleeves are secured against being pulled out when tightening the wheel by their two-stage shape.

The advantage of the distances is the increase in the track width, thanks to which the car behaves better when cornering, and also looks better because the wheels are not hidden in the fenders.

Thanks to the use of spacers, we can mount rims with other parameters such as larger offset (ET), because we level the difference precisely through the spacers. You can also use spacers that change the spacing of the bolts, which allows you to install rims from another car with the same number of fixing bolts.

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Shoshana
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★★★★★ 5
This book will help you navigate the teen years and stay in touch with your kids as they grow into young adults
I first read "The Five Love Languages" for adults and it opened my eyes to a new world. I discovered how the way I was showing love to my husband really wasn't communicating love to him very effectively because MY love language was different than HIS. Then we had a family and my three boys became teenagers and surprise surprise it was a challenge! A friend suggested this book and I immediately was drawn in by it because the concept is the same. How I was trying to communicate love to each one of my three teen and tween boys was not being received how I meant it because their love languages were different than mine. Aargh! That meant I actually had to spend the time learning their love languages and trying to understand them. This was a new idea for me, especially since by then I was a single mom and all I could think about was surviving day to day, not really trying to figure out how each teen boy thought, processed and communicated. Raising young kids I had found to be pretty easy. Teens were another ballgame altogether! Fortunately this book drew the idea of the teenage love languages together for me very easily, and at least helped put me on the right track. I started talking to each of my boys about how they thought and communicated, what they liked and didn't, and we even did the teen love language test together! They thought it was stupid, but we laughed about it and it was helpful! The five languages are, of course, the same as for adults: words of affirmation, physical touch, gifts, acts of service and quality time. I learnt that one of my sons absolutely did not like to be touched but valued when I did things for him (acts of service). I learnt that another really valued quality time even if we didn't talk much. A third needed words of affirmation and negative words tore him apart. Amazing - my languages are words of affirmation and gifts, so there was a lot of miscommunication going on! We started to establish some family rules, and, amazingly, things began to change. I wrote in another review about teenage boundaries that my oldest two teenagers just left home this year. One started college last Fall and the other graduated HS this spring and started a full-time job for a year before he goes to college. They have grown into amazing young adults, and every time I see them they seem to be maturing more. Not everything I did was wrong - something was right, and we're STILL communicating, which is incredible and definitely thanks in part to this book! My youngest son, almost 16, is in full-blown teen years and I'm about to read this book again. Plus I now have two teenage stepdaughters and I've seen that there's a chapter here for blended families which is going to be absolutely invaluable. In short, this is an incredible book and well worth the investment of time and money. Learning to communicate with your teens reaps rewards not only during the younger teenage years, but on through their young adulthood and I'm sure well into the future. In my opinion, it's fairly easy to raise young children, but teenagers are the greatest challenge ever presented to the modern parent given everything we and they face today. This book will help you navigate those years and help you stay in touch with the greatest gift you have been given - your kids!
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Nova Lee
Grantham, US
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Must read for parents of teenagers to learn their kid's personal love language. Teens especially need family love and support!
This is a great book to read if you have a teenager or pre-teen since those hormones and tendencies are already there. My teenager had to do a class that included this book and was able to articulate their love languages. I read this book and understand better now what translates to love for a child may not be the same thing as a parent, especially priority-wise. Example - Affection may be love language to the parent, but the teenager may prefer positive encouragement or affirmations versus hugs and pats. I think it's a great way to bridge the gap and love on your teenagers. Teenagers can be difficult, as I know personally, but they especially need to be loved on by their families in the ways they will accept it (read the book) since they are going through tremendous growth, hormone bursts, self-esteem and identity issues and more to get them through it. This book is an easy read and well worth it if you are looking to better communicate and bond with your teenager, making sure their needs are met. You can also share your needs with them as well so they understand and respect that, i.e. if a parent has a tendency to want to hug and the teen isn't overly fond of it, there can be a compromise between them. :)
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Crystal Dillinger
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★★★★★ 5
A must read if you have a teenager!
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I bought this book after reading the 5 love languages as I have a son that is almost a teenager. This is a must read for any parent with an up and coming teenager as it really does help you better connect with them and understand their love language to ensure their love tank is full. When their love tank is full they really do behave better and are a lot more respectful!
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★★★★★ 5
The 5 love languages themselves are simple enough to "get
As an educator of 25 years plus experience, I always go back to reading and re-reading this timeless book by Dr. Chapman. What a blessing it is for the parents of teenagers and those who work with teens. The 5 love languages themselves are simple enough to "get," but putting them into practice can be a bit difficult for parents. Have no fear: there are plenty of examples and case studies in the book that will "spark" ideas or plans in the reader's mind. The last few chapters on how to deal with parental anger and different family structures are also very helpful. My only one regret: I wish someone had recommended this book to me when my kids were 9 or 10 years old. Get this book. It can be a game changer.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 2, 2016
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★★★★★ 4
helpful and timely
I love the tone of this book. The author comes across well, with the whole goal being to get to know our teens at the heart level. I found myself wanting to see my kids in this same light, as wonderful people God positioned in my life for me to know and interact with. Just that part would have made this book worthwhile. It really did help to change my heart toward them. There were some areas where I felt entitled to respect from them, but those thoughts were dashed as I realized I owe them only love. The author also addressed every question that came up, such as, "Isn't that indulgent?" "What about discipline?" "If I just love them, won't they walk all over me?" Those questions proved I just didn't understand the meaning of the word Love. These questions were particularly answered in the chapters about acts of service and gifts, two love languages that can easily be misused by both parents and teenagers. I learned some things I'd never thought of, such as making a ceremony out of gift giving, in order for it to be accepted as a gift rather than just something a son or daughter is entitled to. About acts of service, I appreciated the advice to serve, all the while explaining what we are doing, so that they will never misunderstand and think they are entitled to acts of service, and also that they will not miss what we are doing is expressing love. Something else that was new to me, and I hadn't counted on, was the moodiness of teenagers. I didn't know that was common and that it will be outgrown. I know, I should have known, I was obviously one at one time, but I missed the obvious, and had some aha moments personally, when I read this book. I hadn't known that there is no need to be offended or intimidated by these moody spells, but to lovingly address the person just as if they were not. There was a whole chapter devoted to finding out our teens' love languages, and even how they might have changed dialects by growing up. The book is up to date, acknowledging that there are cell phones and electronics, and how this affects today's teens so much more than the previous generation. The reason I don't give it five stars is because I thought the author could have used more examples of interests kids could have. So many of the examples and suggestions involved either peer relationships, homework, or sports, all areas where I thought kids would be displaying false personalities. I would have liked to read more examples about family activities in the home, where everyone tends to be more like themselves, and where the reality of their life will lie as soon as they graduate from school. It could also be that we are farming, and our lifestyle is very home centered instead of business trip/9 -5 hours oriented, and I just couldn't relate to those examples. Anyway, that small concern didn't take much away from a great book, There is so much wise advice here, that we could easily fill in our own examples from our life. This is a book I'm glad to have in my library and one that I will read again.
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Reviewed in the United States on June 25, 2013

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