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教出殺人犯 Ⅱ:「好孩子」與犯罪的距離 (輔導專家岡本茂樹): : 1 260 32020 Shigeki Okamoto 1958Japanese Association of Role Reversal Letter writing2015
作者: 岡本茂樹 | 譯者: 黃紘君請回想一下自己的童年,是不是也有過類似經驗?
◍ 父母經常爭吵,家庭氣氛凝重。
◍ 不時被拿來和兄弟姊妹比較。
◍ 家裡經濟狀況不穩定或欠佳。
◍ 曾被反覆叮嚀「像個男生一點」、「女生要端莊一點」、「不要任性」、「不能給人添麻煩」。
人一旦在成長過程中感受到難過、孤單,就會不自覺開啟「好孩子」模式,開始學會察言觀色,變得獨立自主。
好孩子特質確實讓我們長成一個成熟穩重的大人,但換個角度想,不也是在自我壓抑、扼殺自己的聲音嗎?而所有罪犯都曾努力當個好孩子,努力壓抑自己。
「他會在某一天因為某種原因,在大人都沒察覺的情況下,慢慢變成好孩子;也會在一再的忍耐下,最後承受不了而爆發。」─── 岡本茂樹
那個有教養的孩子為何突然變壞?那個有禮貌的人怎會走上犯罪?我們又是從何時開始變得不再任性,也忘了怎麼撒嬌?這些都必須一一回溯「小時候」。
如果你感到活著很辛苦、疲於與人相處,這本書會成為你的「機會」!
本書特色
1.《教出殺人犯Ⅰ》指出「反省教育」造成的壓抑會教出罪犯,《教出殺人犯Ⅱ》則提出「好孩子」特質造成的壓抑會導致犯罪。
2.案例橫跨大學生至60多歲重刑犯,皆為作者實際接觸之個案。此外更分析曾經拒學的百老匯導演宮本亞門、吸毒藝人酒井法子。在這些案例中,我們都會看到自己的身影。
3.收錄「造成壓力的20種價値觀」與「思考既有價値觀的20個祕訣」,以具體情境提供讀者自我覺察與反思。
作者
岡本茂樹(Shigeki Okamoto)
1958年出生於日本兵庫縣,立命館大學產業社會學系教授。原為國高中英文老師,後來進入武庫川女子大學研究所臨床教育學研究科攻讀博士,取得博士學位。日本角色書信療法學會(Japanese Association of Role Reversal Letter-writing)理事長。在大學授課、從事研究,也致力於協助累犯受刑人更生。2015年歿。
著有《教出殺人犯Ⅰ:你以為的反省,只會讓人變得更壞》(遠流)等書。
譯者
黃紘君
臺大政治系學士、日本大阪大學公共政策研究科碩士。專職中日文口筆譯工作超過十年,目前努力在工作與育兒間尋找平衡點。
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