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Desire & Erotic Identity - Online Event

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Desire & Erotic Identity - Online EventUnderstanding what turns us on, and why Sunday 26th April 7pm GMT. Duration approx. 90 minutes with Q&A. Most of us can describe what we're drawn to long before we can explain why. A particular dynamic, a fantasy that keeps returning, a role that feels oddly like home. These patterns rarely arrive by accident. They are shaped by what we have lived through, what we have absorbed, and what we have given ourselves permission to want. This session is a

Understanding what turns us on, and why

Sunday 26th April - 7pm GMT. Duration approx. 90 minutes with Q&A.

Most of us can describe what we're drawn to long before we can explain why. A particular dynamic, a fantasy that keeps returning, a role that feels oddly like home. These patterns rarely arrive by accident. They are shaped by what we have lived through, what we have absorbed, and what we have given ourselves permission to want.

This session is a conversation about what sits underneath all of that. Kilter founder Lydia Coulter and sexologist and kink educator Georgie Blewett spend an hour thinking carefully about desire: where it comes from, how it shifts over time, and why certain currents pull harder than others.

We'll talk about the psychology of dominance and submission, and why power turns up so often in our erotic lives. We'll look at how erotic identity forms and changes, and at the way shame, curiosity, and permission tend to sit closer together than we might expect.

This isn't a session about technique or getting it right. This is a space to understand the internal architecture beneath what turns you on, and to take your own desire seriously as something worth examining.

You'll leave with a clearer read of your own preferences, some language for things that may have felt wordless until now, and a more honest sense of how your desire has been shaped, and where it might be asking to go next.

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This event will be hosted online with dial in details sent 3 hours before the event via email to the same email address used to purchase a ticket.

Please have a journal or something to write on with you.

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4everirish
Natrona Heights, US
★★★★★ 1
Very disappointed
Unfortunately I ended up being very disappointed with this purchase, after about two weeks of use, it just stopped performing. Not sure what happened but it just stopped releasing the ball and I don't know why, it had no flexibility left to it. I'm not doing a very good job of trying to explain why it quit working but suffice it to say, it became useless after a couple of weeks. Broke my neighbors dog's heart, lol.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 20, 2025
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chillalittle
Lowell, US
★★★★★ 5
Tough & durable, but relatively light for throwing
Pattern Name: Tug Frisbee, Size: Large
This is the second one of these that I've ordered although to be honest, the first one is still very much intact and it was bought when my 3-yr old Shepweiler was still a young, but growing, pup! Tough & durable, yet light enough to be thrown (& caught), without much effort. It can also be used as a tug toy, as my other pup, a pit/boxer/"Heinz57" mix, loves to use it as.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 28, 2026
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Ashley T.
Carnegie, US
★★★★★ 5
A favorite in our house!
Pattern Name: Ultra Ring, Size: Large, Pattern Name: Ultra Ring, Size: Large
~ Recommend if you have a dog who: is a heavy chewer/tugger, loves to chase squirrely things (it can have a wacky roll to it, which my dog thinks is so fun), gets their toys dirty or slobbery. My pup is 65 pound pitty mix - i'd definitely say this is for big dogs. Maybe medium (45+ pounds, ish?). Just my opinion, of course... but I think it's a bit thick/heavy for small pups to grab. ~ My pup LOVES this ring toy! I got this back in October - so it has been through the ringer. Atlas isn't usually a super heavy chewer, but with this toy she is. Not only does she love to play with it, she will even bring it to her bed to comfort chew (i think she likes the pressure on her back teeth... this rubbery material is SUPER sturdy but also has a little bit of "give" so I don't worry at all about her teeth). She loves to chase it / catch it on the roll. She brings it to me on the daily for play. Its good for tug, chase, or fetch. Perfect for the beach or any environment, really, as it's super easy to clean... so it comes with us everywhere. We will probably have this toy forever... there's not a single puncture mark yet. So, for me worth the cost 10x over.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 27, 2023
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Debbie Smeltzer
Lake Worth, US
★★★★★ 1
It’s Trash
Pattern Name: Tug Frisbee, Size: Large
Lasted maybe 1 minute… I gave it to my dog turned to throw away package, when I looked back dog had already taken a chunk off … might as well have given him the dollar bills it took to buy … they would probably last as long
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Reviewed in the United States on May 18, 2026
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Rivertender
Lake Worth, US
★★★★★ 4
Arguably bulletproof
Pattern Name: Tug Pull, Size: Large
All good. The gauge is slightly large which my dog, Magnum {66 lb American Stafordshire Terrier), struggles with - slightly. Not a big problem and I am thinking that if the guuge were smaller, Magnum would be able to chew through it and ruin the toy. Comfy grip. Center piece or grip works great also because Magnum likes to grip that which allows the 2 handles to be free for human pulling. Walmart has/had a similar item, but..........one end has tiny spikes meant for the dog to grip. My dog never liked that end, however, so I always got the ucomfortable knobly end and he got the smooth human end - hah ha. Too, Magnum chewed through two of these Walmart toys., I have seen Magnum chewing on this reviewed toy, but I am seeing zero damage. Walmart's toy is cheaper, but the lifetime guarantee on this Tuff Tug toy eliminartes any price advantage. Update 6 months later - the product appears to be bulletproof.....until it wasn't. Everyone on the dog park marveled at the item's amazing durability in terms of daily severe abuse AND my dog's preoccupation with gnawing on the toy. Not only does it hold up, but there are almost no discernable chew marks. All of that said, the toy did finally show some coming apart today (mid March '24 - bought Oct '23 with lots of daily chewing and tug of war abuse). Remarkably, with a good 30% of the item's thickness chewed through - it still stands up to severe and constant tug of war strain......like nothing ever happened! We joke at the dog park that tbe toy is made of Kryptonite. Yes, it's now damaged some, but I feel it is well worth the 20.00 price for the service it has delivered...
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Reviewed in the United States on November 3, 2023

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